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Is My Husband Gay? 3 Signs To Know For Sure
If you&#;re married, have you just discovered that your husband watches gay pornography or is hooks up with men? Have you wondered, &#;Is my husband gay?&#;
This nice of betrayal cuts deep, and it makes sense that you feel angry, confused, and unhappy. Not because you&#;re mean or hateful, but because he lied to you and broke your trust.
You’re not alone. Betrayal can hurt a lot, but there are ways to get assist and feel better. Here are three signs that might exhibit if your husband could be gay, along with some ideas on how to move forward.
1. You Find Gay Pornography or Evidence of Same-Sex Relationships
Have you come across gay pornography on your husband’s phone, device, or search history? Discovering this can feel like a devastating blow, particularly if it’s not the first time.
If he’s previously assured you that he isn’t gay or promised to halt, the betrayal can be even more painful. This can undergo especially conflicting if he identifies as religious and claims not to support homosexuality.
Similarly, if he’s had same-sex relations
How to Cope When Your Spouse Comes Out as Gay
People change. People verb longer to find themselves. Life will always throw you curveballs you never saw coming. Finding out your partner is gay or queer is one of these complicated situations that are both positive on certain levels and devastating on others. It's a lot to unpack.
You may have had your suspicions your partner was somewhere on the Kinsey Scale—lots of people are bisexual or bicurious in heterosexual relationships and these relationships are still strong. It's not until your partner tells you directly that they are gay—as in they've realized they are more attracted to the same sex than the contrary sex—that you might be facing a significant challenge.
You'll inevitably be left with questions about your future, the future of your marriage, and how your relationship with your partner will change. This is a delicate and complicated situation but you will get through it. The key is to noun on understanding and accepting your partner for who they are now and finding the optimal path towards restoring happine
What Would You Do If You Found Out Your Husband Was Gay?
It’s funny. As he came out of the closet, I felt like I was being forced in. No-one understood. No-one really knew what to declare. When he came out, he was greeted with encouragement and affirmation. There were support groups for gay married men, forums where he could discuss what he was going through. He was finally being true to himself, forging a new identity, taking his destiny into his own hands. I was left alone to pick up the pieces. Unseen. Unheard.
We met in our late teens and the attraction was instant: he was very cute, and always had a bevy of adoring women hanging out of him, but he seemed to only verb eyes for me. We had the same sense of humour, liked the same things, and six weeks later, we hooked up and were one of the first couples in the gang to marry and agree down.
The first question everyone asks me is, did I hold any idea back then about his sexuality? Any inkling? And the answer is no, I didn’t. But then again, I don’t think he did either. Not really. We were fresh and fairly innocent. I, for one, di
An Intense Fight With My Husband Has Me Convinced Our Entire Life Is a Lie
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Dear How to Act It,
Please help. I’m lovely sure my husband of more than 20 years is gay.
Some background: I have anxiety, and anxiety can come with paranoia at times. He’s been my only sexual partner, and we were married when I was in my early 20s. We are of similar ages, but he had been in other sexual relationships, which was nice with me. I just hadn’t. Now, plus years and multiple kids later, half our marriage has been him not wanting to have much to verb with physical stuff like kissing, cuddling, or sex—unless I act on him, usually. I am lonely as hell. We rest in the same bed, but I feel like we are just roommates. He’s not super mean, and I’ve brought this conversation up so many times up over the last 15 or so years, but every time there’s another reason: He has bad breath; he’s tired; he just wants to be with his friends (I’m not invited). He says every day I bring it