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January 3, 2015
Day 248

I was planning to tell you more of my dating nightmares, but the more I think about them, the sicker I feel.  Some people don't deserve my second, and some of my top stories just wouldn't be appropriate for this blog anyway!

So instead, I'd like to tell you a bit about how my dating life began.  And I'll share all of this with one overriding reminder: I establish Andy, and I found him relatively early on, so please know when I speak of other guys, my heart was forever grabbed and won by this one incredible man I'm so honored to kiss and live with every single night of my life!

In the launch, there was no internet.  Not for me, at least.  When the internet really started arriving, I was a monk in a conservative Roman Catholic religious order, and while they've since gone very much online, I never was.  My gay life consisted of sneaking peeks at gay books in the college library, and spending Vow-of-Poverty capital on issues of The Village Voice sold at a 7-Eleven on Long Island.  The gay dating ads were few and far between, bu